I don't know if you remember me, haven't been around since mid-October. I came here after My guy and I had an unplanned pregnancy which I miscarried (yes, my miscarriage was confirmed by an honest to god dr.) and we dicided to actively try for a baby. I ovulated unbelievably early after the miscarriage, only 7 days later. I displayed symptoms of early pregnancy all last cycle because my system had no yet recovered.
My scenerio was/is unlike a few people who have 1. been pregnant, and 2. had a miscarriage, so I stopped coming because I was accused of being a liar and a troll. No one on this paticular board, but someone in Due in July who was stalking me around. She said it was simply impossible for me to become pregnant at the end of August, have a possible due date of June 4, miscarry, ovulate, and display symptoms that would give me a possible due date of July 7. Especially since I posted in Due in May to tell them I was leaving, then post in Due in July 7 minutes later (yes, she timed me) to introduce myself.
I guess I should have posted in Due in May from the emergency room as to my condition because posting 4 days later is just totally unbelievable.

The entire attack started with a post I made about my body hair seemed to have stopped growing. Someone (a self proclaimed childbaring expert with 1 child) declare me not pregnant at 10DPO because if I was my should have stopped falling out. I pointed out that the post was not about hair falling out, it was about pit and leg hair not growing. Then I commented that my abdomon and cervix was really hard and this same person told me it was something she read in a pregnancy book and it was definately not my cervix. (Odd, my finger was in my vagina and my cervix felt pretty hard. Maybe I was mistaken and feeling my ribs instead.) That was when my entire store was repeated almost word for word from all the different forums I'd been to on the board. Someone had followed me around collecting my posts to prove I was some fat old man in a basement somewhere trying to gain the simpathies of a pregnancy message board.
I was so shocked I simply stopped coming.

I'm still TTC and I'm currently 11 DPO.

I vaguely remember some kind of bruha, but never paid too much attention at the time. I'm here to deal with the issues of ttc, and all the baggage that goes with that(which can be quite a lot!!). I'm sorry you had to deal with harrassment. (pardon my spelling, but it's sunday morning )

Now about the rest of the info you gave. It is a documented fact that you can ovulate about 2 wks after m/c, birth, etc. The dr. i saw for my m/c early this year said that the next time i ovulate would either be 2wks or 6wks later. 7days seems pretty quick, but every woman is different. It's no big deal if the symptoms you had were mistaken. We've all had confusion about what our bodies are doing at times. It does seem more likely, though, that the symptoms would be from the fact that it takes a few wks for all of the HCG to get out of your system, but who knows. Your body does/did need time to recover, though.




p.s.
This is just my opinion, which may not mean much, but i think your guy needs a royal kick in the pants for bd so soon after a m/c. Some men can be so impatiant about that part of ttc. They need to understand just how much our bodies go through.


p.p.s.
Forwarn me if you take offense to the p.s.

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I know nothing of your problems on the due in board or sheknows in general, but I wanted to say I am sorry if you had a bad experience and you to the TTC 35+ board. We are all here to lend support and be supported.

GL this cy I hope that you get your and that little bean sticks for a healthy and happy 9 months.

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DW Julie 40
"domestically partnered" since 1994

I missed all of it too... but I did ask how you were doing in my "How are each of you doing?" thread. You're welcome here.

Wishing you lots of

Missy

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Missy

, all I can say, is sorry that, that person did that to u.

Also, sorry that u had to experience a m/c . I too, suffered a m/c in June this year and I O'ed 13 days after the actual m/c.
This time around, I am not so lucky...............I had a D&C on 26 Oct, due to a 'Blighted Ovum' at 7w4d, now almost 4 weeks later, I am still yet to O .

So, u see, every loss is different and everybody is different, so u could have well and truly O, 7 days after ur m/c.

with this cy, I hope gets lost for 9 months for u :d.

Babydust to everyone........

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