Ok, enough of the blues!! We are going to get pg and now! Kim and Kimber have opened the door, so let's just all force our way through.

The stats LIE. There is a grain of truth, but what we are fed is the worst case scenario and let's face it, it applies to NONE of us, right?

So, what will you do to help? I'm on a forced break since DH doesn't want me to stay here while he is in DE with his family. I, on the other hand, would love to just stay home (with treatment or without) and just lay low. My idea of heaven: Watch "It's a Wonderful Life" 100 times, followed by "A Christmas Story" for about as many times, while staying my PJs and cuddling the boys for FOUR LONG HAPPY DAYS!! I'll admit, I don't want to be up there, with a toddler looking at me and wanting to play and all I will see is how it's not MY toddler. Not MY baby that, had he been borin in July like I had hoped would be almost 4 months old now, and cooing and drooling and giving me headaches because he refused to sleep at night.

So, what I'm gonna do for the next couple of months: Meditate, re-read my "Conquering Infertility", work on my relaxation response (Jo, teach us some tricks will ya???), and go back to my herbs and acupressure.

Let's all come up with a proactive plan. Because if we just allow our doctor's to lead us 100% we will feel like we have no conrol. And isn't it hard enough not to have control over our eggs and uteruses as it is?? Must we give it 100% over to the docs as well? I am not saying don't trust the docs. But let's keep a little back for ourselves (Like foot massages, or meditation and such).

What do you guys say? Wanna share what you are planning and maybe we can all help each other get there from here?

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