Vanessa, thank you so much for checking in. I'm sorry this has to be such a struggle. I, too, hope that DH will come around. They usually do after a break from the pressure.
But in the meantime, enjoy your trip. I've not seen the white cliffs of Dover in years, and envy you the trip (while I'm not a Brit, I did enjoy my vacations there!). Just have a blast. I'm looking forward to the day you come back to us and say "It was an oopsie! It's a boy, and he's beautiful" or a girl. Doesn't matter which, eh?
You be good to you. Just let us know if you need us.
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You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it. - Margaret Thatcher
Ummm........yeah...sure...I've been good.