I'm kinda feel hurt!

aishiteru · #1 (**permalink**) 05-04-2008, 09:34 PM

Ladies,
last month when i was in WW2, my colleague announced that she is 5 weeks pregnant.
That time i'm suspected that i might be pregnant too as i have all the sympthoms and
my period is late and however i tested with HPT and i got BFN. It's still early to
test so i'm hoping that i'm one of the late BFP ppl. Seriously both of us TTC almost
the same time and I'm very envy with her that she can get PG. I was really hoping
that this month too will be the month for me.

When we talking about pregnancy and i told my colleagues about my situation. One of
them blurted out that if we both pregnant together she will have problem handling the
works and it will be ideal that if there is different by 2 months. The other lady already
confirmed pregnant. Meaning her statement is staying that she wish that i dont have
BFP this month and i should have waited another 2 months to get my BFP??

I'm kinda hurt that time but i didnt said anything. I just brushed it OFF and not to
overly react.

Indeed, this month I got my BFN and my cycle is totally SCREW UP. And the words
she said before keep playing on my heart. I just feel so HURT.
I know maybe she said it unintentionally.

Star622 · #2 (**permalink**) 05-06-2008, 05:26 PM

I'm sorry. I hope your time comes soon! People don't always think before they speak. TTC can be such a sensitive issue especially when you add infertility into the mix.

I didn't share that I was ttcing until after our 2 failed ivf. By then, people at work were worried since I had been missing a lot of work. Thankfully they respected my situation and didn't ask after my ivf cycles that followed. I did have a friend spread the word for me. It was easier for me to handle the situation by not sharing.

Good luck this cycle.