not good news

Lynne M · #1 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 12:36 PM

I started spotting yesterday afternoon, and this morning went to the dr.

They did an u/s and there was a small sac with nothing in it. Even if I had O'ed late, I should have seen something in there by now.

So I had my blood drawn, should know my numbers by tomorrow, then I have to go in for another draw on Sat. He said I should m/c on my own without a d&c.

This is the first m/c I've ever had a m/c & it was very hard not to cry right then.

whitewinterose · #2 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 01:19 PM

NO NO NO NO NO!!!

This was not the news I was expecting to hear from you!!!!

Oh Lynne I am so sorry!!! Please take time to mourn, but take care of yourself!! I am here if you need to talk!! Sadly I've been in your shoes too many times, but it never is easy!!

I am so sorry!!!

Lynne M · #3 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 03:44 PM

Thank you so much Victoria

This is my 5th m/c, and it never gets any easier. but this is the first time I've not seen a lil baby when I had an u/s

Mar2006 · #4 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 04:04 PM

I am so sorry to hear this.

whitewinterose · #5 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 04:10 PM

I know what it feels like to look at the u/s and not see anything. My first pg, I went to get my routine u/s at 12 weeks, and there was nothing but a growing sac. I had a blighted ovum that went for 13 weeks! I lost it right there when we looked and saw nothing!! Actually, out of all 6 pg's, this is the first u/s I have ever had that I have seem something, I was just waiting for the u/s to come back in the negative again! I just wish there was something that I could do to help you move through the grieving...but know that I am here and willing to listen to you vent, scream...and anything else you might need to do!!

Kimi · #6 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 04:26 PM

I am so sorry Lynne. I wish I could give you a real hug, but this will have to do right now.

AFLGirlatHeart · #7 (**permalink**) 07-10-2008, 07:16 PM

Again, I am SO very sorry for your loss sweetie.

danellle · #8 (**permalink**) 07-11-2008, 08:10 AM

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.

Lynne M · #9 (**permalink**) 07-11-2008, 10:51 AM

Thank you so much ladies!! I know that this happened for a reason, and am hopeful that we will soon have another blessing on the way

Lynne M · #10 (**permalink**) 07-11-2008, 11:05 AM

I just realized I worded that last sentence wrong it should have been

"This is the first pg I've ever had that I've not seen a baby on the u/s & it was very hard not to cry right then."

Samanthaj · #11 (**permalink**) 07-12-2008, 08:30 PM

Oh NO! I'm so sorry Lynne (((((((((HUGS))))))))))