I've been asked the "when are you going to have a baby?" question upteen thousand times here lately...how do you respond to the question? I want to say "none of your d**n business" but don't want to be rude, since I see these people a lot...

I think it's become more prevalent b/c in the past I said we were waiting to graduate, and now we are graduating...sometimes I feel like people think it will spontaneously happen. I wish!!

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When ttc'ing our first we always said whenever God deems us ready to have a baby.

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That's a tough one. I'm in the same situation, people keep asking me.

From what I've heard from people who already have one is that they start hearing "when are you going to have another?" It never ends....

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Chrissy-Lynn
Me: 28 DH: 38
DS: 3/11/2008

Your response should be......... "about 9 months after I get pregnant..." seems logical to me.

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That's the greatest response right there!! Then you could laugh a little and walk away!

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I used to say, "When we buy a house." Or, "When my mom lives closer." The best was, "When we get older" because it was so vague. None of those really work anymore.

Basically now I just say something like, "We're thinking about it, but nothing definite yet."

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We just say "someday!"

DH has been joking with his fam since we got married that we are PG! I know that when it really happens they will never believe us! So they don't ask, which makes it a little easier, it's just my fam and friends mostly!

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We always say that we are thinking about it.

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-Brandy