a sign that i need more kids? lol

Farmer_Manda · #1 (**permalink**) 10-06-2004, 09:52 AM

Okay i had started getting into this "maybe i shouldnt ttc anymore" phase. Hubby and i had some problems though at this present moment, they are getting extremely better. So i started wondering if maybe i should be done because if hubby and i did split, the more kids would mean harder finding someone new.. But then the next time i went to the store after starting to think like that, i had an interesting time. There was about a dozen ppl who commented me on my children. usually it was that they are very beautiful. there was a few comments on the fact that they were very well behaved. They were quiet and did not ask for anything in the store and just full of smiles. Then the last two women who spoke to me as i was checking out, one said she had 6 grown kids and that she misses having her kids around likei had mine. She said she had them close like me and she just loved it. She said to keep up the good work. Then the next woman had a wierd accent so it was a little hard understanding her but she told me to have a big family because thats worth more than anything else. I told her it was unusual for someone to encourage another to have a big family lol and she said its because so many are selfish in their material wants. They want a full closet, a new shiny car etc.. and therefore they stop having kids. But kids are so much more fulfilling then material wants.. and our needs will be met. So i felt encouraged to have more. I wonder if God sent me this people to tell me that im not done yet. Now hubby and I are getting along again and i wish i had done a little bd'ing this month. I doubt i got pregnant as sex was scarce.. but my period is due saturday or sunday and im looking forward to ttc again

Do you think it was my "sign" that i need to ttc? lol

Sunshine6 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-06-2004, 03:00 PM

God does speak to us in many ways. I have been comforted, spoken to, etc at just the right moment and knew it was from Him! Looks like He may have more in store for you

Hope this next cycle is it for ya!

Alybear · #3 (**permalink**) 10-08-2004, 01:28 PM

definately a sign. Children are always a blessing. When I was pregnant with my first, dh and I were split for most of the pregnancy. But one month before she was born, God did a miracle in our marriage...and now we've been married for almost 4 years and have 2 little girls and are hoping for more. Please know I'm praying for you and dh. Give him a hug when you see him today and know that God is working out your situation. Things will get better! Trust your dh and know that he's doing the very best he can for you and your little ones.

Farmer_Manda · #4 (**permalink**) 10-09-2004, 09:27 AM

the situation with hubby and I have gotten dramatically better. I actually love being married to him again. I think God has done a lot in my heart as well as to hubby. Things are looking good but i still think hubby needs some personal counseling to get over some issues.

My period is due today but so far she isn't here. Maybe God got us back to being good to each other because im pregnant? hmm we shall see lol

Pridelandsmommy · #5 (**permalink**) 10-12-2004, 08:40 AM

God does work in wonderful ways.........good luck!