my husband and i have been trying, i admit only for a month now, but i still had a lot of hope for a positive. i researched all kinds of early symptoms of early pregnancy and i really felt like i had alot of them but maybe they were all in my head. anywho, off to try again. ive tried not to cry but how do you stay positive?

I completely sympathize. I thought that as soon as we began trying three months ago, It would happen just like that. We were so careful for so long so we wouldn't conceive and now that we are ready and want to so badly its not happening. You try not to stress out and become upset when the test comes back negative but its easier said then done. What I do mentally to help myself is think that it will happen when the time is right. Take your own advice try to relax and have fun with it. I really do believe the more stressed out and anxious we are the more difficult it is too conceive. Our bodies can sense that something is not right. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

I agree with LNBH05. just try to stay positive althoug i know that is hard
love
erin

I too can totally empathise. I cried and cried and cried when I got my negative reading.. I hope everything goes well for you soon.