Hi Christy!!
I'm sorry that you have been going through this for so long. I too have been trying for a while and haven't been very successful. It's probably very difficult for you as well being your DH is away on active duty. I hope that the lord above keeps him safe and brings him home soon!
I am 33 and will be 34 in March. I have had 3 confirmed m/c's and possibly several unconfirmed. I have an autoimmune disorder which causes me to form bloodclots in the placenta when I get pregnant. I was on Clomid for 7 months with IUI and also did Injectables with IUI for 4 months with no luck. Our next step is IVF however, I am on break since October and will start trying next month naturally. In June or July I hope to see where I'm at and decide what to do next. Hopefully, I'll get lucky before then.
In the meantime I wish you lots of luck in the 2WW may this be the one for you!!
Keep in touch!

Kim