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It's definately okay to post here! That's exciting that your daughter is turning one soon! I had so much fun with my DS's birthday, watching him eat his cake and all!
This is a great book to try out for getting her to sleep through the night! It's a very gentle, baby-centered method, and if you are having problems after working with the method for a while, the author even provides her e-mail address in the book so you can tell her about the problem directly.
Here is her website so that you can find out more:
http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth/new...eepbookann.htm
It is available at most bookstores (I'm not sure where you live, but I live on the prairies in Canada and was able to find it, so it must be even more accessible elsewhere, because the only place less metro than this is Alaska or the Arctic LOL), and if you want to check it out before you buy it, it's also at most libraries.
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No cry sleep solution book
