We have decided that I will be moving to PEI afterall. I had hoped to stay here in Ontario and try to make a go of it, But Travis is whinning about the money he would have to pay in Spousal Support, he says he can't afford it. So he agreed to let me take the kids and move away. I was upset at first as I had my heart set on staying, but am now looking forward to returning to my roots, and being with my family and friend.
I am getting quotes from moving companies... so far they are betwwen 5000-6200 !!!!!!!!!!!!
WE have been giving away our tropical fish, and have one more pickup today and they will be all gone. Poor kids were so upset. We are taking our Guinea pigs and the hamster in the car with us.
also am trying to plan outings with the girls before we leave. They are with Travis this weekend, and next weekend we will go to the Toronto Zoo, 2 weeks after that we are going to the African Lion Safari, and still need to plan in a trip to the petting farm for Kaycie.
We are leaving on June 29th and he gets them every 2nd weekend, So time is running out.
As for a settlement, My lawyer had asked for 1010/month in Child support, and 1000/in supposal support(had got reduced from 1500 because I am now working part time, 10-15 hrs a week) but once I move I won't have the job anymore. Anyway, we have been dicussing the money issues, and i have agreed to take a 20000 lump sum payment and 300/month in SS for the next 5 years, now that is not written in stone, but gives Travis something to think about it. Child support reamins the same 1010. no bartering on that one.
I just want this all to be over with, so I can begin to live again.