I have an appointment with my OB/GYN to talk about this very topic. But, that is still a couple of weeks off. My question is if there is anyone out there who was on antidepressants and now has children. Are they healthy? Are they not? Was it because of the antidepressants? The ironic issue I am wrestling with is a woman that isn't on antidepressants could have a sick baby, or one with developmental issues. Yet, for me, if I do ending up taking antidepressants while pregnant, how would I ever forgive myself if my baby is sick. I will never know if my decision was the one that will affect the rest of their life. I know they say some antidepressants are safe; but how do you know? You don't, and you won't, and I can't seem to cope with that. I have been six months off of my medication and we still are not pregnant. I know I have to go back on antidepressants, but then what?