I recently got engaged & I have fallen out of love with my fiancee & in love with someone else. I have been seeing him for the last 5 months. I just found out I am preganant & I know whose it is & it's not my fiancee's. What would you do?

Are you 100% sure it is NOT your fiance's? Because before you say anything you need to know for sure. I suggest that you have a talk with your fiance about the new man. All the stress is not good for you or the baby. Good luck!

I am 100% sure it's not his because we haven't had sex because I just couldn't after knowing I wasn't in love anymore & with what I had done. I can't imagine having an abortion.

Yeah, you definately need to talk to your fiancee!

:gl

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What would I say?

Do you plan on leaving your fiance'? Because I say, if you plan on leaving, just tell him you fell out of love, and you are moving on, but i wouldnt tell him about the baby. If you are sure its not his, then dont tell him. Not yet anyways- he will already have enough to worry about and to add the baby wouldnt be good. Thats my opinion.

I only can relate to this in a way because I just left my husband of 7 yrs, and he was my BF 6 yrs before that. In the process of asking for a divorce, I met the man of my dreams. Anytime you need to talk, IM me ok?

Thank you for your advice. I haven't been able to talk to anyone about this. I will IM you for sure.