Chatty Thread #14

Annah&Zach1.28.05 · #1 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 12:50 PM

What's your definition of cheating in a relationship?

*Mariah's*Mommy* · #2 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 02:48 PM

Originally Posted by Annah&Zach1.28.05

What's your definition of cheating in a relationship?

hmm... this is a tough one, people have such different opinions. I think anything you wouldnt do infront of your SO with another person, is probably cheating or something that could be taken as cheating...I dont know though.

TexasMamma#1 · #3 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 02:55 PM

Yup I agree. Anything that you wouldn't want your SO to see you doing is what I consider cheating. I do think that there are varying degrees of cheating obviously.

ilovemy2boys · #4 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 03:15 PM

I consider anything to do with potentially being with another woman cheating...even talking on the phone, lol...I do not stand for any of it!

Berlin&Co · #5 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 03:45 PM

What's your definition of cheating in a relationship? It's really hard to put a definition to what I consider cheating. There are some things I can tolerate DH doing with certain friends that if I saw him doing with someone else would end things right then and there. There are so many different 'levels' of cheating and I really wont stand for any of them. I guess when he's acting in a behavior that takes him away from me and my family. Hell, sometimes I consider him cheating on me with his job when it takes away from our time together in a severe manner.

kellybelly_msu · #6 (**permalink**) 04-23-2008, 03:54 PM

anything you cannot be honest about, imo. anything that would hurt your partner or your relationship involving the opposite sex. I agree there are different levels, different degrees, and that even talking can be cheating...
I personally don't even believe in having friends of the opposite sex. I have a few guy friends, but they are his friends first, or family. I'm friends with their wives, etc... and I amstill really careful about that, b/c you just never know these days. And I wouldn't DARE let him be friends with another woman no matter what. If he ever gave me a reason to be, I think I might be psycho-crazy kind of jealous. He has never, ever given me any doubt though.

I was NEVER jealous with any other guy I ever dated either...that should tell you I married the right man. Sorry...got off on rambling!

kandp'smommy · #7 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 06:47 AM

Hey Annah- Could you add me to Team Pink. I guess I'm not on the Green Team anymore since I'm SURE now that we're having a little girl!!! I just noticed it on the Stats thread. Thanks!!!

*Mariah's*Mommy* · #8 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 08:59 AM

Thanks to the QOTD yesterday I had a very vivid dream that my DH cheated on me, lol. I told him about it when we woke up this morning and he was cracking up when I told him who it was that he cheated on me with, he was like that is gross!. Weird dreams towards the end of pregnancy... last night I had that one, and I dreamed that I was being attacked by a possum. It hurt really bad and I was worried about the baby getting rabies,lol. I dont know where that one came from, I dont think I have ever seen a possum in real life...very strange.

Berlin&Co · #9 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 11:43 AM

You're not alone there Amanda! I did too, in the little time that I managed to get sleep. Brianna got sick last night, so sleep was hard to come by last night for both me and DH.

MaybeBabyin08 · #10 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 01:38 PM

So weird...I had a dream my dh cheated on my last night too. I walked in on them kissing, and I literally beat the mess out of that girl. When I told dh, he was like OMG, that girl is so ugly, I would never do that! How weird is it that all 3 of us dreamt that??

As for the answer, I agree that even talking can be cheating. I had a friend who's dh was talking on the phone and internet to a "friend" and it turned into something other than friendly. It never got physical (so he says), but the things they were saying weren't things he could've said in front of his wife. I would be psycho jealous!!!

kellybelly_msu · #11 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 02:25 PM

I've been hving c-r-a-z-y deams pretty much since the very beginning of my pregnancy. I looked into it not long ago because I like to try to try to find meanings of dreams (just for fun - although I do think it has correlatio with your subconscience). Check this out about your "cheating dreams".

Deciphering pregnancy dreams: second trimester - BabyCenter

hmmmm....interesting!

Annah&Zach1.28.05 · #12 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 04:02 PM

I promise that wasn't the desired reaction I was looking for ladies! But I should have known something would come of it with those crazy hormones!

Has anyone ever told you that you resemble a celebrity?

*Mariah's*Mommy* · #13 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 08:42 PM

lol, thats funny Annah. It is so weird so many of us had dreams like that!

Has anyone ever told you that you resemble a celebrity?

My Aunt is convinced that I remind her of Jessica SImpson. She even calls and says "HI Jessica, how are you and the baby doing." I dont see it at ALL, and niether does my DH. Thats about the only celebrity look alike comment I have gotten.

Berlin&Co · #14 (**permalink**) 04-24-2008, 09:08 PM

Has anyone ever told you that you resemble a celebrity?
Annah, you're actually the one who brought this up first, but I've had people tell me I look like that girl who was on Supernatural, season two. Her name is Alona Tal, she played Jo Harvelle.

It's not the best picture, but it's the best I could find for now.

Annah&Zach1.28.05 · #15 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 07:51 AM

Berlin - you do though. I remember the first episode with her in it, I could have sworn it was you. Maybe I'll watch the DVDs tonight. It was so funny.

What do you eat for breakfast?

degenhardt · #16 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 10:03 AM

What do I eat for breakfast? Usually Kashi cereal or a smoothie. I'm not a big breakfast person

sammiebz · #17 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 01:41 PM

Originally Posted by ilovemy2boys

I consider anything to do with potentially being with another woman cheating...even talking on the phone, lol...I do not stand for any of it!

I so TOTALLY agree with you on this one! I also consider it cheating even if they are talking to another women like they are potentially going to date.

My husband told me that he doesn't consider kissing cheating, so I said to him, so if I went out dancing at a bar and saw this really hot guy and kissed him you wouldn't consider that cheating? Of course he had to rethink his ways of cheating because I let him know that even if he were doing as little as talking to another woman about intimate stuff you know what i mean...

Berlin&Co · #18 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 01:57 PM

Hi Sam

What do you eat for breakfast? Right now, oatmeal. I heard it can possibly help with my supply so I can keep breastfeeding Tallie during this pregnancy. But it usually varies depending on if DH is home to cook or not, and what he feels like making. We can have toast, muffins, fruit, eggs, you name it.

kellybelly_msu · #19 (**permalink**) 04-25-2008, 07:07 PM

On work days, I usually eat a banana , a 100 calorie pack of blue bery muffins, a pack of peanut butter and crackers, and yogurt. ) That really sounds like a lot, but doesn't seem like it. I cant eat right when I get up, but I eat all morning long pretty much once I get to work.

Annah&Zach1.28.05 · #20 (**permalink**) 04-26-2008, 07:50 AM

Happy Saturday ladies. Hopefully you all have busy weekends planned, or at the very least fun ones. Is there anything that you're really looking forward to doing today?

If you could go back in time to any era, which would you choose?