Ok I'm starting to stress (more!). I think I just need to vent a little and feel free to slap me back to sense if I'm being a complete wench here. My mother and Aunt have been planning my baby shower for me. I am due somewhere around March 13th. Originally my sister who lives out of state was going to be able to come right around Valentine's Day so the shower was supposed to be then. (which I thought a little late) She has since decided she would rather come after the baby is born. I assumed the shower was still going to be around the same time. NOW I find out that it's not going to be until March 3rd. This is my first baby so I don't have anything from a previous child. I've bee holding off on buying things even though my "nesting instincts" have been screaming at me that I am not prepared. I have the furniture & matress and stoller/car seat. But I'm freaking out because then whatever I don't get at the shower has to be purchased in about 2 weeks. Or WHAT IF she comes early and I have no sheets, no diapers, no wipes, blankets, pack-n-play bassinet... Should I be freaking out? My fiance says I'm ungratful which hurts cause I'm not trying to be ungratful I'm just worried that she's gonna come and have no where to sleep and I'm going to feel like the wost mother in the world. Am I crazy?!