My kids' dad's gf...(that's long)...kinda wrecked my weekend this morning. She called and MKD had to go back up to her place. She can't take care of the kids even WITH HELP so he had to go back to do it for her. We kinda had plans for getting this house ready for the baby and so I can actually USE the rest of the house (such as the kitchen) within the next week. As it is, we're using the kitchen next door (I own that house too) until this one is finished, but it's a pain.

They are just over a week old now. The DNA comes back next week and then I guess we'll see...maybe MKD will end up with custody and just ignore her. ICK I hate it when people do nothing to help themselves like her. At least if she didn't have custody she can't come anywhere near here either (she's a sexual offender and not allowed contact with minors, including her other two children which she lost custody of. The fact that she was allowed to keep the twins at all was a shock).

Ok now that's better. I had to say it because I'm kinda pissy. She wrecked my weekend and I told MKD this better not be the start of a constant thing or I will have an absolute fit.

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She's a sexual offender?! Omg- how the hell did the state let her keep her kids

She has to have probation officer checks at random, social services there a lot to check on her/the babies, group therapy every week, but still...she makes me SO MAD! Her life is so dang important that I can't do my stuff down here? Go figure! I didn't take the time she needed away from her. She is to me. MKD just called and I told him that if this crap is going to be something constant if those kids do end up being his, he should take custody and say f*ck her and she can stay away since either way he'd have to take care of them. At least then she won't be interrupting MY life. And if they aren't hers, let her give them away too. It isn't like she even wants them. There's lots of people that DO.

By the way, it's nice to see you! I don't know if you've been on this part of SK before, but I'm glad to stopped.

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Okay,s o I can't believe that she's a sex offender in the first place, but oh my those poor children. At least she is getting help for her problem, but I'm still not too sure that she should be allowed to have the kids in her care.

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Melanie
25 Loving Mommy to Julian Malachi

WOW! That;s unbelievable, she's allowed to keep her children (not that I think ANY Mother should be torn away from her child) that situation is f-ed up though.
I too hope that this isn't the start of him spending ALL his free time with her. Granted those 2 babes DO need lots and lots of TLC , so maybe having him go up every once in awhile isn't so bad, just so they can have some ACTUAL love in their lives.
, hope things start to look up!

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Thanks-I know esp if he's their dad he'd be the best thing for them, but he COULD take custody then since she doesn't even want them and just bring them here. And she couldn't visit so HA. Maybe I'm being overly mean there, but I don't like when people manipulate and I end up getting the short end of the stick by it. Ugh!!!

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no way, you aren't being mean at all. The lady OBVIOUSLY has issues and shouldn't even be allowed children (that sounds harsh but it's reality, sex offenders should NOT be allowed kids). Hoping for the best for you!

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