Ok so me and father of child herin referred to as "idiot" are talking on the phone last night. I figure that it is getting close to time for baby to arrive, so one last ditch effort to make peace wouldn't hurt. Although there is not even a remote possibility of us being together as a couple, I feel that we should be adult enough to let go of any bad feelings between on us and have an actual good friendship. But that would take 2 adults. So anyways Idiot says to me " . . . you just used me to get a baby. . . " And I'm like yeah I always wanted to be a single mom yanno! And then he also says " One part of me wants to forgive you and still love you, but the other part can't stand you" I'm like hey a****** , forgive ME? YOU were wrong! And so in order to deflect the conversation I ask him what he has been up to and he says " working and saving up money cuz I got a baby on the way" I'm like really? I would've had no idea considering that either me or my mother bought EVERYTHING that the child has! I am sooooo done talking to him. Hey can't say I didn't try. See what happens when ya try to be the bigger person?!

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Melanie
25 Loving Mommy to Julian Malachi

Melanie, I'm sorry to hear that the dad isn't being so understanable and making all the false accusations to you. You know that you have the support of your family and of us here on the board. ! Just think, not much longer till your little bundle arrives! Keep that in mind and you'll do just fine.

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I agree stay strong and post here to vent.