Hi, everyone. I'm trying to find a forum where I belong. I'm 40, a single mom of a 10 year-old, and I recently miscarried. It's only been about 3 weeks and I am still grieving and feeling alone. Some women have husbands or a loving partner to share this experience with but I have had to face this without that support. I thought it would be nice to chat with others who understand some of these issues.
I have been through the pain of miscarriage, and I guess most people are telling ou it was for the best, etc because you would be a single mom. I don't think that way at all. The baby was your baby, and a part of you is missing now, and cannot be replaced. It is perfectly normal to need to grieve the lose of your child. I wish you the best. Take care of yourself.
I had a miscarriage over a year ago and I still cry about it now being pregant agian I am very scared but i have the best care so here is a big hug and its okay to greive for along time.
And more hugs!!! That is devastating and I am sorry to hear that. It is much worse having to deal with your loss alone, but that is what we are here for. Don't get discouraged because the posts are kinda sparce, but you have to remember, this is a single mom board, and not everyone has the time to sit down and post or chat like they may want to. Most have to do EVERYTHING on their own, and there are many single moms in such financial strains, having a computer with support like this is a luxury many sinply can't afford. I wish you the best and send hugs and understanding your way.