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Does it ever end?!

This is a discussion on Does it ever end?! within the PG - Single Moms forums, part of the Age and Experience category; So we all know that my son's father does nothing for his son, and I'm fine with thatCuz ...

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Old 09-15-2007, 09:38 PM
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So we all know that my son's father does nothing for his son, and I'm fine with thatCuz I do all that needs to be done. But I absolutely hate it when he fakes concern. My car is down cuz it needs a new radiator. My dad who's a mechanic is supposed to fix it before the weekend is over, but he didn't come today, so hopefully he will come tomorrow. But anyways I needed some things from Wal Mart and decided I'd just hop on the bus/metro insteda of waiting for someone to take me, so I did. Well my son's dad stopped by (the first time he has been to my house in months) and of course I wasn't there. So he asks my mom and he tells her that I took the bus to the store. He goes off telling her that I am crazy (she almost went off on him) to go out there on the bus, and why didn't I call him. He calls me and says the same thing, and I told him that it was easier for me to just get up and go. What I really wanted to say is that "I don't call you any other time for any other reason, why would I call you now?!". So he says "well my concern wasn't really about you, it was about the baby." So I say well, he's fine. What I wanted to say to that was "Oh, please, You have never done anything for this child in his life. You aren't concerned about providing for him in any way, so why fake concern about anyhting else that has to do with him." That loser is just not even worth an argument. You only argue with people you care about, and frankly I don't care, but it bugs me when he fakes like he is such a concerned dad, which is probably what he tells other people.
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Old 09-15-2007, 10:18 PM
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Men can be so fickle. It's not that they don't care, it's just that they have a need to complain about everything...esp things they know nothing about. Every once in awhile they DO remember that they did have sex and a child was conceived. So when they show that they care, they must do it in a big display, the memory of their caring is supposed to last until they can remember again.
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Old 09-17-2007, 08:19 PM
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I agree. It must make him feel like a Dad to swell up and pound his chest for awhile
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Old 09-17-2007, 11:35 PM
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Yes, it makes ALL feel manly
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Old 09-20-2007, 08:49 AM
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If it were me, I would have said exactly what u wanted to say to him but didn't. Maybe it''s something he needs to hear.
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Old 09-20-2007, 11:59 AM
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Men can not handle that kind of truth, all it dose is piss US off that they STILL don't understand.
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