All the points these fine ladies have made are fantastic ones.
19 months ago I found myself in the SAME position. The toss up between keeping the fetus or going through the a termination. I'll tell you one thing, the decision is the HARDEST part, the rest will just come. Once I saw Oceana's little body in a bean form, at the u/s I had to go to to find out exactly how far along I was in order to go through with an abortion, I started to cry. I just kept thinking "how could I give up such a precious thing." If the daddy is saying he will leave because he doesn't want to pay child support to 3 kids...then what kind of man does that tell you he is? Money is more important than his own child??
HOWEVER if the you feel you can't go through with the abortion you DO have other options sweetie. If you need to talk feel free to add me to msn (serial_joe5@hotmail.com) or message me on here and I'd be more than happy to talk.
Don't let ANYONE make a decision, as big as this, for you. It's up to you as you're the mother. My thoughts are with you and I'll be praying for you Keep your chin up!

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