HI everyone. Sorry that I have been gone for a while. Update: my baby is 16 months old. I am 37 years old. Early Menopause runs in my family. I am on day 65 after my last wierd period (lots of spotting). I have taken 4 hpts and all neg. I have been feeling awful, fatigued with hot flashes. So, I figured, it must be the start of menopause. I went to the doc and she sent me for a blood test last Friday. I am so freaked out that i am pg again. If I am I would have to take leave from work again (I teach). My principal will kill me besides the fact that I begged her to schedule the school Renaissance Festival for March (I organize it.) Today, I am feeling some presure in my pelvic area. Could this be my mind playing tricks on me. What else could cause these symptoms?