I've haven't been on here in forever...but I just need some advice... My daughter is turning 1 the 12th of this Month.....and I am scared I could of gotten pregnant! But I don't know how good the chance is. I have not had intercourse since May 13th of last year and all. But October me and my b/f did sort of. We made out a really really long time so he was ready to go, ya know? And then we started intercourse maybe 5 min or so and it was hurting so we stopped, but I am worried about pre ejaculation, ya know? I have heard that you are very fertile after you have a baby...and that you can get preggie from pre ejaculation. My last A/F started on Sept 14th....and we did what we did on the 6th of October....8 days from my A/F...and I am pretty dang sure that I was ovualting and very fertile at that time and I am just sacred!! This probably sounds really stupid...but I feel like I could be preggie...and it might just be in my head or something. I don't know. Anyone have any advice...or am I just being paranoid??? When I got preggie from daughter....my last A/F started on Jan 3rd and I got preggie the morning of the 19th and that was after my "ovualtion" timeline....so I am scared!! I mean I want another baby, but I want to be married and all, ya know? Please tell me what you think!! Thank you all soooo much!

I wouldn't worry too much - when they say you are more fertile after having a baby - they mean like right after - like the first 3 months. And since pre-ejaculation has so few spermies, chances are if there were any at all, they died off. My dh and I start off without using anything pretty often and have never had a problem getting pg - and I'm very fertile normally! All our babies have been planned and I know my body well enough to know when I'm ovulating and stuff, too.
I mean, certainly anything is possible, but the chances are so very slim that you have gotten pregnant this time. Rest easy!

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hey...thank you for responding!! Well, I am pretty dang sure I was ovulating! But it is probably all in my head! I "feel" like I am ....but it's gotta be all in my head!! I hope!...I want more babies...but now would not be a good time....My dad has cancer, my mom is disabled, my 1 year daughter's father doesn't help me at all, my parents get $698 a month and everything else falls on me....so I am kind of scared....Plus, I really really like the guy I am with and I am scared that he will freak out, ya know?? Well, thank you again!!

If you are that worried and freaked out, I would take a test right about the time of your period. It may ease your mind a bit more. Or, maybe try to find an ovulation calculator on the internet and use that to see if you really were ovulating. Good luck!

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