Hi im 16 and I live in Ohio and found out I am pregnant. We wernt exspecting this but it just happened. Reguardless, both my boy friend and me are very happy as are his parents. I want to move in with him since he is the father and his parents are all for it. The only problem is my mom hates his family and doesnt want me having anything to do with him. I tried talking to her about this. Useing one of those "what if situations" and she flipped out on me and told me she would call the cops on me for running away and then on his mom for kid napping. Hes 17 by the way. Am I able to move in with him or do I have to go through this alone?

It depends.. some states let you emancipate if you are pregnant.. you may want to look into marriage though if you want that...

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The day you deliver, outside will be rainy. Your baby will arrive in wee hours of the morning .
After a labor lasting approximately 2 hours, your child, a girl, will be born. Your baby will weigh about
8 pounds, 5 ounces, and will be 18-1/2 inches long. This child will have blue eyes and be almost bald.

I agree with the previous poster! Look into emancipation...

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I would say the same thing as the other ladies. Emancipate yourself , but I wouldnt jump into marriage right away unless youve been with him for a long time. Im sure your mom is just upset and worried cause shes losing control (what she probably thinks) Im sure she'll come around eventually.



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Hi, I hope that you still come back and check the responses to your post. First of all congratulations. I am happy to hear that both you and your boyfriend are excited about your unexpected miracle. I applaud your boyfriends mother for offering encouragement as well. I hope that your boyfriend continues to be supportive. My advice to you would be to proceed with caution. Your mother may simply need time to cool off. If it isn't reasonable to ask her to talk, perhaps you can write her a letter. Remember to not be offensive but clearly state your point of view and support it, and also ask her if you could talk calmly so that she could help you to understand why she feels the way that she does. Regardless of anyone's objections, this child will come to be if it is God's will and you will each have a role in the baby's life. Her as the grandmother, you and your boyfriend as the parents. I urge you to wait and not rush into marriage as it is a serious committment for two people so young. And with this child you are both already involved in a serious responsibilty. Continue to plan for and raise this child together, and if you do plan to be together, do it right. Make sure you continue with your education, and financially plan everything before you move in together. To be the best for your child you have to be the best you. And though you may be at odds now, it's nice to have the support of your family.

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