getting anxious about big U/S (gender)
so, tell me I'm not crazy.
I am pg with my 2nd child, with my daughter she was a surprise, we did go in wanting to know the gender, but we went a little early (18 weeks) and she was moving too much to get a clear shot.. the US tech said she 'thought' she was a girl, but then shes like 'wait it could be a boy' and shes like 'i have NO idea' so we didn't find out. we always felt like she was a girl, and we didn't even have a boys name picked out, we had a few, none of them really felt 'right' to me, and I was not stressing out about not having the boys name, its like we 'knew'. we would have probably passed out if she was a boy.. LOL. we also did NOT buy any pink/blue items, we brought a gender neutral outfit to the hospital, and her first pink items were brought to us by family.
ANYWAYS, here is my anxiety..
since that experience with my DD pg, about 'not being able to tell clearly' I am getting anxiety of finding out the gender and it being WRONG! I guess maybe if its a boy, and its as clear as some of these pictures, I'll believe it.. but I'm just scared of that error & being dissapointed. know what I mean?
we honestly have no feelings towards a certain gender, we'd be just as happy either way. so its not like I'm getting my hopes up, its just if they tell me its a boy, and we get all this stuff and for 20 weeks think we are having a boy and it turns out to be a girl?
sooooooooooooo, anyone know anyone that had a wrong gender result with an US?
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