UUGGH!! it is 1am and I can't sleep! I just got Xander to sleep about half an hour ago (he was having a hard time with Gas )
I wached the u/s video a few times and keep seeing what I saw before, maybe some boy parts but then great, no perfect girly pictures! I am so scared that Zailee is going to be a boy, if that happened I would feel just like I lost my baby girl and I would be sad for the loss of Zailee but happy that I am having a boy? Does that make sence to anyone?

I am so excited about seeing my baby again no matter what the gender, I am just scared about her changing gender so late in the game after all the shower invites have been sent and I did my whole registry in girl things and I really want some of that stuff on there, I don't know what I would do if I were to be having a boy!!!

AAAHHHH!!!! I just need to stop with this obsession and SLEEP!!! I mean what I would have to change her name and tell everyone that she is a boy but I wouldn't love the baby any less!

It will be ok! I will let you all know how it goes when I get back. Thanks for listening to me rant!

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I know how you feel about maybe not being 100% on the gender. Although we had a pretty clear picture that we're having a girl at the 20 week u/s, but there's always that "what if" question in the back of my mind. So I HAD to schedule a 3D/4D u/s to make 100% sure that we're still having a girl.

I could only imagine telling everyone that we were wrong especially after invites and showers.

Are you going to get a 3d done?

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The thought crossed my mind after we found out for certain (first time finding out), but everything about the pregnancy screamed girl to me (like my other two girls), so I felt secure in that. When we had an ultrasound this week and could again see the girly parts I was happy to know that she should stay a she for hte remainder of the pregnancy! I hope that you have the same results, because you do begin to bond especially after knowing what you are expecting, and purchasing items, and finding that perfect name.

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Hope she stays a she and that you get another chance to see it and confirm it. The mind does plays games on you. Just keep all receipts to everything you get. And maybe start getting a few nuetral colored (or blue) things just in case.

But you never know. Known many people who were told girl all throughout the pgncy and got a boy (including one lady that was on my Feb04 board and dh's aunt). That is why Im staying my neutral ground when the techs said they had a high suspicion of a girl since they didn't see anything poking out or buldging each time they went down there to check. I need proof for myself, like I did with the boys, to think girl/boy. All I saw were closed legs. I tried and tried but saw nothing. Not a chance Im taking sides. Although dh and my mom are taking the girl side. My mom has already bought a girl outfit.

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Rachel
Proud Mother of 2 Boys and a Girl
Isaac David - February 2004
Carson Eli - January 2006
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I am glad to say SHE IS A SHE 100%!!!! YAY!!!!

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