Hospital neighbor SAD *warning

Mere · #1 (**permalink**) 03-08-2008, 02:03 PM

This is about a loss.....so you may not want to read....So this am the nurses were in trying to find the twins hbs. they were being stubborn so the nurse had to call for back up. Anyway they were talking about an earlier c/s (which was obviously anemergency c/s since it happened at like 6 am and at about 10:30 the mom was still in recovery.) Anyway, the nurses were kinda whispering to eachother and I thought I heard NICU but I wasn't going to ask them about what they were saying. So ff to about 3:30 my family came to visit. When they were leaving I walked them to the door and there is a family in the hall a few doors down. They are all looking very sad and crying. My mom said she thinks they lost the baby and they were looking at pics of the baby in the hall. I know it is a big conclusion to come to but you can just see in their faces something is terribly wrong. I know there is a lady who has been here with her water broken siince Jan 10....and she is only 29 weeks or so. I wonder if something happened to her? I feel so horrible for the family. It also brings back a flood of emotions and memories from when we lost Alaura. I just feel for that family. I am hoping we are wrong, and we may never know. You know they don't answer questions about other patients.

emuone · #2 (**permalink**) 03-08-2008, 04:05 PM

Poor things

~onesinlove~ · #3 (**permalink**) 03-08-2008, 05:46 PM

That must be so horrible. I can't imagine going through anything like that =(

heavensabove · #4 (**permalink**) 03-08-2008, 07:30 PM

No one should ever go through that. Just heartbreaking.

Carman_ashley · #5 (**permalink**) 03-10-2008, 02:44 PM

That reminds me of when Xander was in the NICU and there was a family who lost their baby girl a few days after putting her in the NICU, it was awful to see! I felt a little guilty that Xander lived and their baby didn't KWIM.