Ooops...I asked you about your possible name choices in your siggy thread! That's what I get for being so impatient I guess!

FWIW, I LOVE the name Joseph...this is one of the only names that I like all of the variations for it- Joey is sweet for a child, Joe is nice for an adult and Joseph is a strong name in case, ya know, he becomes a doctor or lawyer or something

. Joseph Cole has a nice ring to it (and if I'm not mistaken didn't you want to stay with the "rock" theme?) When I asked DH about us using Joseph he vetoed it- but only because his ex-step brother has that name and it, apparently, has negative connotations for him now...turns out we don't need a boys name so no biggie for us I guess!
To answer your question: yes, we are set on our little girl name: Allison Rene (though when I shared it here before I spelled it Alison and have since added the 2nd "l"

) Rene is both my mn as well as my mother's so that was a given for us I think (both boys have ties to family in their names so we wanted her to have that as well...) And I am not kidding when I say that the 1st name was the only one that I offered to DH that he agreed with! It's important to him, and me I guess, to have a name that doesn't evoke a negative response in either of us when we hear it and neither of us know, or know of , an Allison- so there it is!
Naming is HARD- esp when you have to agree with another person and you are both pretty opinionated about what you want or don't want! You guys will find something that suits your family in time though...lots of trial and error (before the baby comes!

) and one of these days you'll just find it I bet!