I posted this on another board because I am so confused....

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So a week ago we found out were having baby boys and since then we have recieved so much clothes for the boys, starting at like super early ages all the way till like 2 from several people. I am personally so grateful for these because I will need them.
My friend looked at me like I was crazy for taking them and said I really should just get my own clothes for the boys. She thinks that they should match and that they shoul dhave something of their own.
My thinking is at home when were just hanging around, "I don't care what you are wearing becaues your going to spit up, throw up, or get pee on it." When were out for special occasions I will get them new things that I have picked out and possibly match.

I am limiting my take to some things like car seats because of safety, or anything that I would feel wouldn't be safe for the boys.

Am I weird to accept these second-hand clothes? Would you accept second hand stuff? I am a first time mother so please tell me if I am being dumb.
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Starting IVF Thursday, August 6th
ER on August 18-7 retrieved
ET on August 23-2 embies in!
2 snowbabies frozen
Beta #1: 5dp 5dt-----35
Beta #2: 10dp 5dt----623
Beta #3: 12dp 5dt----1223
Beta #4: 17dp5dt----- 8685
VERY BLESSED!!! Praying to St. Gerard to bless us for a sweet baby.
Second Ultra sound showed two healthy babies.
Baby A's heartbeat is at: 138
Baby B's heartbeat is at: 140
Nice job guys!!!
Third Ultra sound- Our beautiful babies are growing!
Baby A's heartbeat is at: 163
Baby B's heartbeat is at: 165 I love them
Fourth ultra sound- Was sick and went to check on them...just 5 days after the 3rd ultra sound.
Baby A's heartbeat is at: 169
Baby B's heartbeat is at: 173