To tell you the truth, I'm a REAL BIG PLANNER! I love to always know what's going on. This is one of those situations where you just can't be in control of everything. Luckily, my doctor talked me through all of this when I was pregnant with my first. I'm REALLY glad he did. Basically, we talked about the few things that were important to me and just said "let the rest happen how it will happen..." My daughter's birth was VERY fast and it was quite confusing and chaotic, so I was glad I just let things happen... well, the best that I could!!