Looking that way for me too. I've raised my son on my own, his father has not been in the picture what so ever. This little ones father is living in Illinois, and I live in Canada. He was suppose to be moving up here, but that isn't looking like it's going to happen. We are still together, but I see him every 6 weeks or so for a few days, so it's pretty tough. Anyhow, I think I kind of count.