Pregnant & being forced to get divorced
I am 7 1/2 months pregnant with my second daughter. I've only been married for 5 months and my husband decided he was done. My daughter who is almost 3 is not his but she loves him and treats him like daddy and he does the same for her. She hasnt known anyone else as daddy but him even though it has only been a short while. We rushed into our marriage but not because we were expecting just because we wanted to be together and thought that we loved each other enough so everyone would understand. We got married after only being together 2 months but we knew(at the time) that it would all be ok because we loved each other and we would make it work. Well now 5 1/2 months later i am pregnant, married and alone. He works out of town and he only get to come visit when his job doesnt make him work weekends also. about 3 weeks ago he calls me like he does everynight but this time he tells me he no longer wants to be with me. He wants to still be there for my daughter who is 2 and he wants to be there for our baby on the way but NOT for me. He wants a divorce. How can you just do that? just decide one day you dont love your wife anymore and you no longer want to be with her. Since that day he has already gotten his own place in the town he works in and has informed me that i cant come and he cant help me get a place right now becuase he doesnt have the money. I dont know what has changed him and what is going on in his head right now. all i know is that I love him so much and he is breaking my heart and doesnt seem to really care. It makes it hard to eat, sleep and even think let alone take care of my daughter. I try to keep all my feelings inside so she doesnt see but she's not dumb and she knows something is going on. Im scared of what is going to happen. I am looseing the love of my life and it doesnt seem to phase him.. So i guess i really just wanted to ask someone anyone for advice and for a prayer if you could. thank you for your time..
Tiffany
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