Well, what can I say? The title says it all. I was married previously to a man for 18 years that had thought that he had it all figured out, that life in general should revolve around him due to him having everything handed to him on a silver platter all his life. Sex with him had gotten so monatenous, it was horrible. I mean , when you hear "hey baby, wanna fuck?" it just kinda turns you off, and not on, if you know what i mean! Sex with Martin, wasnt even loving, it was give me what...