Re: intro
I won't be looking forward to my son's teen years because my almost 4 yr old is not 'caring what I say then when I get to become in 'my serious tone' that i mean buisness if I'm around mom when i'm discipling him it's all wrong and she's against it . I'm like stating my mom is such a 'hypocrite' she had did much more worse discipline to me which btw she forgot or is in denial but why would I make up such a thing. Mom still does the yelling that 'she scares the 'whole waitress even brendan has told her to pipe down and she just laughs at him when he stated that but she & her kiss up friend had to give me a lecture saying my son is going to 'resent me and I will push him away. But mom's yelling excuse is her being assertive. I know my son is more normaler than me but that doesn't mean he will become freewill boy.
For example you would think he would get the 'idea of not to continue to draw, color walls then to add the pudding, and yougurt to the walls . He has done that at least five times every single month.
Then to 'end up continously playing with the 'water' which i tell him when mom is cooking dinner 'you do not touch the water. He did anyways & flooded the whole bathroom .
Then my mom is 'wondering if i'm beating him up and that's why he's acting up and I go no but will 'never admit to her that i do give him a little swat when he does something he's not supposed too but that's also something she's against now but she was the one who had rubber 'scrapers, pancake spatulas, and wooden spoons hidden under the car to 'swat our hands , knees, and she spent so much time slapping our face with her hands, if we talked bad to her soap in our mouth if our toys were out she would rip them apart and she even broke my brother gun over her knee in half a big plastic gun. I actually had to pay my cousin for 2 books that my mom ripped into pieces & no one would believe me. Except when i got into highschool i told some people i was being abused my mom made me say i was lying then finally when i came to school with a hurt hand the 'nurse started to 'realize i was telling the truth. but it was already too late when i was made by mom too look like a liar so I ended up becoming a liar just because i didn't want to get that severe punishment again but of course that continued.
I even told my brother the 'discipline that mom once did to us she is now against & will be saying how 'wrong its for you to do this -when she did much more worse to us it feels like how am I am supposed to do the 'right discipline without having my mom 'accusing me that i'm abusing my own child' btw she's also against attachment parenting and I'm like what am I supposed to do now.
Sometimes I do act ike my mom but when i realize I do I 'admit it and say i apologize to my boy which my mom when she gets into 'her mood swings & lashes out she says its me or her hubby who made her do that 'she never owns her own responsiblity.
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