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Old 05-20-2008, 09:46 AM
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Default Re: Why is it that I cant think totally positive in regards to my TR?

I will say that actually, at the time of my reversal surgery, as i stated in the other post, i had my period, and thinking back, it was a few days early, lol.
so maybe upcoming surgery does change our bio-pattern a bit.
Worrying is natural.
And yes, there is the worry about spending the money for sumthing that may not happen.
TR surgery does not guarantee pregnancy.
Even in a woman with perfect cycles, there can be problems. Sometimes the egg just cant make it down the tube after surgery because the surgery removes many important hairs that 'swoosh' the egg down the tubes.. maybe the remaining lengths will be scarred, maybe ,maybe ,maybe....
No guarantees.
Thousands of women spend tens of thousands of dollars each on IVF knowing there is a less than 50% chance it will work....
Point being...... there is no point dwelling on what might not be.
We all know when we go under the knife that we are taking a gamble.
Just accept, it, take a deep breath, relax, and know that whatever is meant to be will be.
The worry will just make recovery harder.
Take comfort in knowing you are doing your best to return yourself to fertility... thats all you can do.
Some ladies here are still waiting for their TR baby.... some got preggers right away.
Hang in there.
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