thanks jane. it's been rough. i just got back from yet another u/s and it was clear so no D&C this time around. i had to take cytotec twice but it did the job this time (in December it didn't). i'm not sure what we will do next. embryo adoption or traditional adoption. i'll give myself a little rest before i dive into that stuff. i don't know how dh will be or how fast he will want to move. he is notoriously slow in deciding to do anything, let alone this big. for now i have shelly who is such a sweetheart. at the YMCA today, the babysitters said how wonderful she is w/ the babies and how she'll be such a good big sister. i pray she is sooner rather than later as i didn't want the kids so far apart. oh well, they will be now.
i think i have your email but PM me it again so i can keep in touch