Zqueen - I have a friend named Alee' (pronounced A-lee-uh). I really like her name. Just thouht I'd suggest itiether to you or to anyone.
Dh and I were in the same situation. I finally sopped making lists, because it was a waste of time. He was going to say no to EVERYTHING. So I told him that he needed to mke a list for me. I told him that he was no longer allowed to go hunting unless he gave me at least one name to think about while he was gone. And told him I needed a total of 10 names before my next doctor's appointment, or I was going to make im go with me (whichhe HATES taking off work and HATES doctors even more). It worked! We have a Christopher "Owen"! Maybe you just need to approach it in a more creative way.