Lynne...That's our plan too...the co-ed BBQ thing. I had a co-ed surprise shower with Jaymin, and I LOVED having the special men in my life there. I don't really want a formal shower this time...just a get-together to celebrate. I mean, I don't want to invite all the same people who have been to all my other showers. My kids are so close together, I'm sure people are getting tired of the invites

. I'm hoping it can just be a fun casual thing.
And, yes, I know, I'm so behind! I have been looking at bedding online, and I'm still trying to decide if I love any of it enough, or if I just want to pick out my own material and have my mom make it. I can't decide. I think I've just about seen it all from all my internet searching, and I have only fallen in love with the stuff that is $300+....and that's just not happening! I may choose one of the others that I like though, cause I do have some that I like a lot. Plus, I'm a bit limited because the furniture in her room will be a mix of white and cherry, so I need a bedding that will look nice with that. We'll see.