WTF, that's just rude and inconsiderate. I am furtunate that my mother in law was nothing like that, unfortunately she passed away a year before DH and I were married (though she knew we were planning on it, we had just bought our house together and had been together for 4 years). She was always beggning us to get marrie dnad have babies and get this, move in w/ her. We sometimes regret that we waited but we got pregnant w/ Mj a few months after she passed so we kind of always thought it was ehr way of coming back to us. ANYHOW, sorry your MIL is so rude, I mean why can't people keep their opinions to themselves. I mean here we are expecting our 3rd under what some people don't consider the best circumstances, (even my mom had just been lecturing me jsut before I told her abuot the pregnancy, she was saying I know you want more but you have your boy and girl and you should really just be happy with them) but when I told her she was happy and supportive even though she didn't agree. I guess I am lucky, (and thankful). Your DH will just need to have another talk w/ her obviously!

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