hematite: that is really good information! we're in PA, not NY and i bet the lengthy legal battle would be just as long and expensive (if not moreso) than going through the second parent adoption. we're gonna longshot it, though, and as the hospital to put DP's name on the birth certificate anyway. we'll show 'em our MA marriage license. maybe we'll slip through the cracks!

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Robin (the femme, 34, carrying)
M* (the butch, 48)

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