BTDT with my ex, adn it was brutal doing it alone, but in the end, it was the best thing that could have happened. He is still a jerk, and I only have to deal with him a few times a month, rather than every day. It helps to have a good support network around you. I found I had more help from my friends than my ex would have ever given me. With this pg my dh and I almost split before the wedding, but thankfully were able to work everything out and the issues that were there no longer are. It is hard going it as a single parent, but it is do-able. Best of luck with everything, it sounds like you have alot on your plate right now.

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