Claire
I read through your post last night. I was so overcome with anger towards that man that I could not post.
I have been in 3 accidents, 1 was a pretty big one. My car door wouldn't open either but everyone was ok. It was a few years ago, but I totally kwym about being shaken. How could you not be?
I can not believe that he had the ardascity (sp?) to come up to you like that. How scary and out of control for everyone to witness! But the big thing is that he was not involved it was between you and the other lady.
I want you to know that accidents happen to everyone. Just take sometime off from driving, but you can't go through life thinking that you don't want to drive b/c you are scared.