That's just it, How "do" I know when it's over. My husband and I have been married for years now and have a small child. He always just seems distant. I talk a lot and want to tell him things that the baby did or things that I think are funny and he just doesn't seem that interested. I work full time, yet make sure to have a hot meal on the table when he gets home, have the baby clean and house clean too. I never get a thank you, or any gesture of him happy that though I worked all day as well I still made time to cook, clean, take care of the baby and take care of his needs too. He golfs and does what he wants on the weekends, but what about me? I don't get a break unless I complain that I need one. Tonight I made dinner and it took me a while b/c it was a new meal that I was trying out. It was a mexican dish that I wanted to make him b/c it's Cinco De Mayo and I thought it would be fun to try it today. He came home in a bad mood and was raising his voice at me over and over, I told him to stop yelling at me, and he didn't. I scooped the dinner out and got everything ready dispite me being angry that he was treating me this way. He got pissed and threw his plate down and the food went flying all over me and the floor, counter, etc. I just burst into tears b/c I just can't be super mom, super wife anymore. I don't know what I want anymore, I have a wonderful baby, but I now totally hate my husband. what now?

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[Lizzy