aww, don't fret, I dont think you're selfish.
I however could NEVER wear so much bling, hehe, id lose it for sure.
My band is silver, cost 15.00, husbands was 20.00
My 'engagement' ring was 20, its silver also, wiht a silver and gold pentagram on it.
They were cheap, but mean soo much to me. Hubby and i did a ring consecrating/blessing ceremony the night before our wedding, and we both invoked our love and dedication into each others rings.. it was a beautiful ceremony....
what am i trying to say? Whether you paid thousands or 20.00, its not about the money, its about the way you feel when you look at it. And if you look at it and feel displeased, then do what you need to do to rectify the situation hon

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