Jenny this was just me but you know that I had a M/C and the part that was worse than having it was people coming up to me weeks later congratulating me on my pregnancy when I had M/C. This last time I had 3 faithful friends that knew and were my support and once I got past 12 wks I slowly starting telling people. I was nearly 20 wks before I was really telling folks. and the funny part is that people thought that it was a rumor till I said yes.

Also just being paranoid I didnt buy anything for the baby till after I was 24 wks along and knew I had a chance to bring home my son if he came early. That was Christmas for me and it was great making it there.

You must do what you feel like you want to do though in the end

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