It is a good attitude. Just remember that you can't control timing, and I agree, if it is meant to happen, you'll find your path to that . No one ever said the road would be easy for all of us - look what a tough road it has been for so many of us on this board. Perhaps you have something to learn on this journey that will make you a better parent! I don't know - I just try to come up with reasons "why" when things don't make sense.

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