Dear Kara,

I'm sorry things are so sucky for you right now. Big Hugs! I don't really know what kind of advice to give as my own situation is pretty crappy right now due to stress and anxiety. It is kind of hard to me to give advice to make you feel better when I can't seem to make myself feel better. Just know that you aren't alone.

The one thing that I can suggest is to try to change the way you think about things. I find that often if one thing is bad or difficult in my life that tends to color my view on everything else in my life -- sort of like putting on sun glasses. You put on the glass to dull the sun but they then darken everything even when you aren't in the sun. You have to remember to take off the sunglass when indoors. Does that make any sense? Don't fall into the emotional transference trap.

Other than that all I can say is that I understand. I hope you feel better soon!

Allison

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Allison
Mother to Jessica, Joshua, Hannah and Nickolas