I am sorry for your loss i say you could wait to see if bleeding starts if it doesn't then I would suggest a d&c if bleeding hasn't started within 2 wks but if bleeding does start watch to see if your bleeding too much at my first m/c but 2nd loss I started to hemeroage that i needed a emergency d&c -d&c is pretty simple just general anthesia doesn't hurt & no pain medicine was neccessary