I didn't get to this until Sunday.

My big excitement this weekend was cleaning out my car yesterday--boring, but, necessary.

Where are we at regarding adoption? Well, we're having discussions, but, it's basically on hold until we finish another IVF round. I find that I cannot figure out which adoption route would be best for us. Whenever I hear stories and think about older child adoption, I have such great empathy for the kids involved that I cannot fathom going another route. Most international adoptions aren't available to us as a married same-sex couple--I'm not willing to lie about that--although I'd be open to advice from people who know more about which might be. Private adoption can be very expensive. Do I want to spend so much money, when there are older children who need homes so badly? In other words, I have no idea where we're at.