This past Friday I went for my 1st pelvic exam. The Dr examined me and said I wasn't as big I should be for 10wks. He order an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat and the baby measured only 6 1/2 wks. Now I have a D&C next week. I had all the symptoms of pregnancy at first but over the last couple of weeks I have noticed that they were starting to fade. I did not have any spotting or cramping as far as I new everything was going fine. This was my first attempt at having a baby. I do not know what to expect from this point on? Is a D&C painful, alot of cramping and bleeding afterwards??