BeckyAnn
I totally understand the feeling of loss as I had m/c at 20 wks 9 years ago with my first baby will never forget him (another boy!)

I plot my cycles on fertility friend.com it's great as it shows O day according to temp and cm. If you have a chart that you have been doing you can put it in and see what it says for you. Without seeing whole chart it's hard to guess whats happening. (fertility friend is free to join and you get 31 days free vip trial too)

What is your cm doing right now? The closer to O you should see ewcm (egg white cervical mucus) then clear and stretchy, as soon as you O it turns to creamy acid cm. (sorry to be so graphic!!) Does this give you a better clue as to when you O??

I think sperm generally live for 5 days but have heard of women who have boys already getting pregnant with a girl up to 7 days before O. x

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